Is it Getting Too Easy to Label Past Partners

Being single opens your eyes up to a lot. You become the person all your friends in relationships give the tea to about theirs. You hear and see lots. And it includes dating people and hearing some interesting stories. Which makes you learn about what you want and definitely don't want. 

First red flag to put out there for everyone. When speaking to people in the past about their previous relationships with their boyfriends or girlfriends and you ask them why did you break up? They say "oh he/she/they was a psycho". Don't get me wrong they might have been a little crazy and at first naively we believe them. 

It is always good to ask yourself why they were "crazy"?  Because really how many times did they get hurt? There are reasons as to why people react certain ways and when love is involved feelings are stronger than any emotion a human can feel. Some people's overreaction is another's underreaction, there isn't a measure unless it is something very severe of course. Who doesn't feel strongly about being wronged by someone they loved and admired? It can bring out the worst in some people from all these feelings. 

Some people need a label or something vague as an excuse which drives their partner upset and angry over their actions. Which is fine let them and sorry to say let the next person find out and deal with it. They are only going to be in your fabulous group of crazy exes that cared about them. Remember unless you know everything about that relationship don't be quick to believe there wasn't a valid reason for their past lover to react the way they did. 

This could actually save you in the long run hehe.