Am I Dating the Same Person But in a Different Font

The dating world is a wild and crazy place. Some would say not for the weak. Dating allows you to meet different people from all different backgrounds. Or so you would think. But what we attract is a whole other story. 

Some of us have ‘types’ of what we look for in particular that be looks or personality. Then there are some that whoever they meet is different from the last. Today we are not talking about them. We are talking about how we can stop allowing the same patterns. 

When we break up with someone it is for a reason, either it wasn't working for you, or wasn't working for them. Doesn't matter how bad, breakups suck. It is not something particularly nice to experience. After so much time you want to move on and find someone to settle with or have a companion. But sometimes do you ever feel you keep choosing the same person in a different font?

We can attract a certain type of person that we want depending where we are at in life. When we are younger, we may have careless love and then as we get older it gets a little more serious. You start asking questions like could I have my babies with you? I know crazy how the frontal lobe develops and everything just sinks into place. 

It is good to reflect on previous relationships as they can set the pace for the next one and help you understand about yourself and where you are at. Figuring out what wasn't working and why it wasn't is crucial. This can create boundaries for yourself to not tolerate or enable your future partner to bring those things into your life again. 

It is important to remember what you give out and what you put into the universe because we all know the Law of Attraction. Which is whatever you think and put out will come into reality. This could be a factor into the dating world. What you put out there everyone will think too. 

For example, the party life. If there's an understanding you both aren't into that and one goes out and you stay cosy then it is all good. But if their only time they have is spent at the weekend living it up at the club, whilst you are at home trying to unwind, it may not be the best fit. 

As you get older you want things to change like moving out etc. If you are dealt with the same partner that isn't wanting more and sees a future with you, let them go! 

After so long of dating the same type of man/woman it gets boring. Aren't you bored? I would be and have been in the same shoes. It should be fun and exciting dating but when you end up in the loop of the same person you can feel like you want to give up. My advice is don't! Never give up on love. 

When you go out into the dating world, it is never a bad thing to be picky. But remember not to be super picky because people can evolve. We can change and mould together and remember they don't know you inside and out. If I think of my relationship at the start and what it is now, it couldn't be any different in some ways. You learn from each other and understand how to work in certain ways to suit your relationship healthily and fairly. 

Be happy and present within your single life you will never have this time again one day. And always remember that whoever comes into your life is a plus.