Dear Luna: Growing Up, Letting Go and Knowing Your Limits

Is Closure Overrated?

I have always felt closure is something I needed to move on and I truly believe that no closure is the best type of closure. Silence and space speaks volume. It says a lot about the person and where they stand with you. Knowing more when things have happened isn't necessary when it comes to healing. Didn’t Tame Impala say The Less I Know The Better? Lets live by this. 

Why Do Women's Friendships Matter So Much?

Having female friendships are fundamental for every girl. Even if it is just one friendship. No one will get you like another girly will. You grow with each other from all different stages of life and probably are the most vulnerable with. It is nurturing to have a female friendship to feel seen and heard as who else is going to understand more than the person who is living in a society as a woman like you? It is essential as well alongside other relationships and family to be in touch with yourself and let your hair down once in a while. 

Why Is Everyone Talking About Boundaries?

We are a generation who loves to put boundaries in at any opportunity we get. It feels safe but sometimes it can just be an excuse instead of being rude or transparent to others. Boundaries are important in moderation and making sure you are not taking them for granted. Because when you really need them it will start to look like it is an excuse to avoid. You can have boundaries and be a good communicator without hurting other people's feelings. Then the flip side is that there are so many that don't have boundaries and my advice to you is to start before you either burnout or have a meltdown. The world can be very demanding these days. 

What Does Growing Up Actually Feel Like?

I don't think anyone grows up. I think our priorities change and what we want changes. But we all have an inner child and have childish fun within our personalities. Being in touch with this is important, by having fun, doing those hobbies or simply watching those cozy childish films. You may have everything ticked off with a house, car and job and think I feel grown up now, but really you are just that teenager who has just figured it out and has got some stuff together in your life. Never get rid of that fun sparkle.