I love this question because recently I have really felt so complete with the love that I have for my friends and how important they are to my everyday life.
Friendships are so different to romantic relationships because they are there without a doubt.
Unless obviously some do fail , everyone has failed friendships but I want to talk about the sort of friendships that are completely platonic.
A closeness that I have felt within my girls and also some of the boys in my life that without a doubt, we will always be there for each other.
To have them sit and listen to the same issue 100 times over and back you 110% is one of the most heartwarming feelings to have.
To know that you have someone undeniably to trust and chat absolute rubbish friendship.
Sat on the sofa watching a movie in silence and not having to fill every gap.
It’s every time you see them you hug them and every time you say goodbye, you hug them as if it’s the last time you ever gonna see them.
To make sure that they have a better day and making sure that holidays aren’t so bad for them when you know that it’s the time of year.
It’s having little drunken giggles and remembering this is what love is, that you don’t have to doubt for a second that they’re gonna hurt you or have bad intentions.
You don’t have to wonder where they are and you know where you stand with them all the way.
I think being so lucky to have friends like that no matter where any of them are within the country and no matter how different our lives and journeys can be to have people that are that special that adapt and adjust.
Always just drive away or call away to listen and have a joke with.
They know you inside out, sometimes more than yourself which can be a bit scary but it's scary in a good way because they get to see the parts of you that you never thought were there.
I just wanted to put a little reminder out there that friendships are platonic love and I think I answered my question straight away when I start thinking about the friendships that I have and what those friendships are.
What they have given me and what I’ve given to those friendships couldn’t be more equal and I don’t think there’s ever been a point within the last couple of years, where I’ve been around my friends and felt bad about anything in the world.
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