This is a sad one because it is something that I see more than often than not.
There are lots of people in my life that try and better themselves and try so hard to do the most like either physically, mentally or emotionally and really want the best for themselves.
At some point they will stumble over someone and that they will fall in love with...
And that person is aware of how important and amazing that person is, they’re very much aware of what they’ve got in front of them but for some reason, can’t quite treat them exactly as they should.
Whether that's from past experiences or different outlooks on life.
At first they treat them well and make them feel like the best person in the whole world and then as time goes on that effort starts to fade.
Abusing trust and 'being comfortable'.
Finding their flaws and knowing them like the back of their hand.
Maybe the person on occasion does something they shouldn’t have done and starts disrespecting them.
That shouldn’t be tolerated in any sort of relationship.
The person that has made all the effort to better themselves before meeting them, slowly starts to fade, losing themself within that person because they want to hold onto them because they care and love them so much.
It makes them overly critical of themself.
Looking in and thinking why am I not good enough?
Why are they treating me like this?
It must be because I’m not good enough.
It’s really sad because that person will be at their best at that moment and it can still not be enough for another person.
Wait I take that back, no the person that you are with isn't good enough.
They are projecting their insecurities onto you, someone that loves you would never make you feel like that.
No one should ever be treated badly whether you are your best self or not, no one should be ever treated badly by anyone, no one deserves that.
I always remember this one thing that bad people do bad things because they have their own demons to work through.
Sometimes you think well if I’m this 'great person' that they think I am and it must be now because I am not enough.
But you are enough.
Remember where it all started, from you.
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