Change

Change change change.

A very sticky topic to write about and the most of all to talk about.

I have mentioned quite a lot in my blog posts that I don’t like change and that I don’t know anyone who likes change.

But sometimes change is beneficial for us as humans to grow.

When I think about change I always think of it as a negative thing, because from a young age when the changes did come in my life, they were mostly negative. 

I don’t think I could pinpoint anything in my teenagers that was a change that was a change for the good. 

There are some things like losing family members which causes change that will never feel good and I think that’s a universal thing 

No one wants to lose someone and grieve because that sort of change is very specific to feel, 

most of all the change with ourselves is such a scary thing.

I feel like I’m constantly evolving all the time which I don’t realise it’s happening.

I think I know myself sometimes and then next minute plot twist I feel like I don’t know where I am.

For example, I struggle with the deciding what I want to do for my career.

I was always sitting on one thing and then something changed within me. 

They made me think I don’t want to do that. 

I want to take on a different path but to me that felt like a big change .

I started looking at myself and not knowing who I am because I felt like my interests were very different and I think sometimes I need to just sit back and just accept it. 

I’m not always gonna be stressing the same things all the time and I will learn new things about within my career that I want to go in and think I actually I prefer that.

Or my personality, fits better with this part especially with journalism.

That is a mild example, but that is something recently that I have felt which is a change within me that has felt so big and I come to the realisation that it’s not that problematic compared to the other changes that I have felt.

But it’s okay to be a little bit cautious because it’s something new.

Change is new and something we don’t know much about.

Something that we’ve never seen before so it can be really alarming because we like things that are comfortable.

We like the same things we like to know what we’re doing, and sometimes when you have to face something new you can’t fully feel and know what it’s going to be like.

With change there are positives and we can sit and talk about the negatives all day of change but it’s good to say and think about how new love can enter our lives and that is a great change. 

We can have such bad love in our lives, and then departing from them can be hard, but finding a new love can teach us. 

Teach us what real love is and could take us places and can open our eyes up to the world and that small heartbeat that we learnt so much fun.

We just the bad changes do happen but you can see yourself grow and you being better, better for you.

Caring more about what you have in your life and I think your priorities change as well because you are faced with these struggles of things being different that you have to adjust and adapt 

by doing so it takes a lot of strength and a lot of courage.

If something happens like that again, it may hurt still but it will feel a bit better than it did before the first time because you know that you can get through that change again.

You are just stronger and wiser with the whole process and most of all better things can come along the way.

Most of the time the good changes definitely outweigh the bad changes and to think that these all these great opportunities in these great things that happen within your life.

The people that you get to me and places you get to see are so important, but you have been guided to this by these bad changes.

Bad changes are sometimes good ones in disguise.