Everyone around you has a journey.
Whether that be in their career path, family path or love.
There’s so many different types and maybe right now, your journey isn’t about love.
Maybe right now, on your path it isn’t about finding a person to settle down with the rest of your life.
Maybe it’s about being successful and going for that career right now.
It’s so hard to feel like you should have it all, especially having that romantic relationship.
We should have those friendships, you should have that dog by now, you should have that car, you should have that job.
There’s a whole checklist that we all probably have that is absolutely impossible sometimes to try and tick off but that’s why timing is such a precious thing.
One day we will have all these things and there'll be nothing left to tick off.
But maybe right now your journey isn’t about love and that the love that you have got is not romantic, love that is friendship love and that it’s within yourself.
Beating ourselves up about the fact that we haven’t found the one by a certain age is the most ridiculous concept because there are so many pressures we see so many couples in the media on our phones and with Valentine’s Day just gone, no wonder our heads are fried.
We feel like we are not complete without the person.
Maybe it's genuinely finding yourself and learning from the people that have walked away, learning people that we’ve let go and the places that we’re going to go.
Adventure and learn about culture and see what’s around us and adapting to a different type of journey that we didn’t know that was there.
Picking up all the pieces of everything that we felt like we couldn’t ever get over and not rushing everything.
Feeling like we’re in a rush on this journey to find someone to be and feel complete and that we don’t have to depend on other humans to be able to feel like we are worthy of love.
When we should already know that we are worthy of love, because everyone is worthy of love and whatever is meant for you will find you.
There is a reason for why certain things do happen along the way and the people that we have had we can learn from.
When that time does come and our journey does become about love it will slot in like a jigsaw puzzle as if it was never not there.
It will make you realise that everything that ever left was never a loss and made up this perfect picture of this journey and end result being a journey finally changing into love.
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