The perfect girl mould

So I am here to give you perfect girl mould guide.

First of all your skin needs to be flawless make sure you keep up that skincare no one likes acne or stretch marks.

Make sure you are perfectly shaven because when did women have body hair ew.

Nails should always be perfectly manicured not too long because they can be threatening and no bright colours!

Never leave the house with perfected hair and makeup or everyone will think you haven't made an effort, remember your beauty is your superpower.

Always wear clothes to suit your own body, don't have too much on show as it will raw unwanted attention but enough to be noticed.

Remember make sure your waist and stomach are snatched to give the hour glass figure with your womanly curves.

These days you have to have everything so make sure you are well educated and successful but not too much because it will intimidate people.

Have a social life but don't spend too much time with them or you won't have time to find a partner.

Did you really just read all of that.

I hope that as a woman reading this you didn't relate to any of that but sadly you will have whether it being one or all.

It wouldn't surprise me.

This is a sad reality.

As a woman naturally we are judged not by choice but how we have been manufactured to be in society.

We are desirable beings to be admired and taken to complete a mans life.

This is an old narrative which luckily for a lot of girls and women now we don't have to deal with half of it anymore

But there is still enough goings on and issues that we face all stemming from our looks and success.

We were never allowed success but in this day and age we are luckily from the powerful women in the past.

Being judged by our appearance isn't dominantly form just males its females too because we are in competition with each other from the pressure of society.

We all love a nice outfit to make us feel good and take photos off and as we should flaunt your beauty but don't abuse into these toxic patterns.

Being constantly making sure our hair looks okay or making sure this skirt fits my body shape right is exhausting.

Why do we care?

What flipped a switch in our head to feel this way?

Is it the male gaze?

Is their a way out of it?

I can happily say you don't have to be this perfect person all the time because it isn't real.

As much as you think people don't, people want real and people appreciate real.

Because there isn't enough of it!

You are more than what you look like you are where you like to go, the books you read and many more things that make you, you.

It is the least interesting thing about you.

We have to remember as women our fluctuates in all paths in our life for example from a child to a woman then onto having babies and menopause our bodies are never fixed to stay the same.

We always wants the opposite of what we have because as humans we do.

If you had curly hair you want straight hair, if you were curvy you would want to be petite.

You can never win even within a battle with yourself reverend the rest of the world.

Who ever said that having all these things make you valued, it brings attention but does that mean value?

For a lot of women I know they wear certain things or have certain things done for self preservation to avoid hostile comments about how they look.

Which is another angle that even safety has to be taken into consideration.

Strive to make a difference take your power and put it into the things you love.

See places, work and take up your interests which will make you evolve not only on the outside but inside too.

You are not a checklist that needs to be ticked remember you are human.