I've always been the biggest advocate for trusting your gut.
I say to my friends, trust your waters.
Or I could feel it in my waters.
Every person has an intuition that no other person can describe.
It’s like the feeling that you know that something is happening or you just have that "funny feeling".
It is like we are witches and wizards hehe.
That funny feeling can look different to everyone.
It’s a sad truth but the female intuition rule is that they always find out.
Some can look at an Instagram name and just be like yeah this is the girl and there could be a thousand girls there it’s crazy.
I hope someone can prove me wrong because it is an awful feeling to experience.
I’ve always hated being right in some ways because I don’t want to have these feelings that there is something wrong or something isn’t quite right.
For example when I’ve been in a relationship or friendships.
But it always makes me feel relieved after what feels like I am going insane.
I think my brain is telling me one thing and my body is telling me another.
I’m getting these answers from people physically and they’re denying them and then they come
out that they are actually true.
It gives me a little bit of closure to know that time that I got those feelings that I should listen to myself and I can trust myself.
As much as my brain is telling me one thing and I never want to believe it nine times out of ten.
I think if we listen to our bodies more about how we feel about situations we might actually lower the amount of hurt, anger or even frustration we feel.
We all have ended up in these situations with someone who we dismiss our emotions for leading us to overthink, beating ourselves up.
On the other hand when it comes to hard decisions for example taking that new job, moving to that new place or a milestone, you think: I don’t know if I can do this.
Your body is going no no no but then you realise that it could work actually.
Only you know yourself and your boundaries.
The things we don't think are going to work do work.
Sometimes it’s worth it for the lesson.
It pushes each other to be better and do better things for ourself.
Instead of staying in our comfort zones which are so lovely and fluffy for now but in reality they’ll start creeping upon us.
Promise to me: never to let a person question how you feel.
Everything is in your control as much as you think it isn't and your body is always there to help you.
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